Elegant and Feminine Process:
Crickets In The Bedroom
Discover practical ways to be seen, feel desired and deeply connected to your man again
(… yes, that makes for a more peaceful and playful world too!)
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Crickets in the Bedroom is the problem most couples experience at some point in their life.
But this program Magic in the Bedroom the game-changing Love mindset course that puts fun and sparks into your “ok, fine, so-so” relationship
This is a training, support and the community to make it happen – in a real and powerful way. It’s simple and it works!
Leave the crickets for the outdoors and bring magic back to your bedroom!
Take this fun course as a remedy to Crickets in Your Bedroom!
Once upon a time, there was this 29-year-old blonde.
She was smart, well traveled, multilingual, and attractive… but apparently, only to other men, not her own husband.
He was not interested in her stories, her wit or even in her young, fit body.
He’d prefer watching TV … and sleeping on his side of the bed, turned away from her.
Ouch!
As every assertive woman would do, she looked for the reasons and concluded:
“My boobies are too small, my accent is too thick, I’m too awkward. And I talk too much. I’m too much…
…but I’m still not enough for him”
She didn’t feel seen, desired or connected.
She just felt resented.
Being married was the loneliest feeling in the world for … me.
I'm that woman.
And I was just one of many millions of women around the world who experience aloneness in marriage.
A high percentage of divorces in this modern time happen because there is no magic in the bedroom.
Actually, more often than not, there is NOTHING happening in the bedroom.
Nothing but crickets.
That’s something people are ashamed to admit.
It’s a personal and private, tender and vulnerable state.
.. if you are going through similar, I’ve got some good news for you:
-* It doesn’t have to stay this way forever! *-
As a former nun with a vow of celibacy, it’s no wonder that I developed a guilt-shame framed opinion about sex. I had to learn a lot about body, feelings and partnership in order to even consider giving myself a permission to enjoy hot and steamy life that a female body craves.
Crickets in the Bedroom is an epidemic!… and that’s why I want to help you solve it with my upcoming project.
Since 2001 I’ve been helping women feel seen, desired and connected. And now I want to help you… but I need YOUR help too.
If you resonate with this story, I’d love to interview you and ask a couple of questions about your experience.
I want to understand what’s been going on for you and how you feel and what you’ve been experiencing about it.
All your answers will be super helpful.
In exchange for your time, I’ll help you get to the bottom of what might have caused crickets to set up their camp in your bedroom.
This is not a sales call, just a woman-to-woman talking about those pesky crickets and the impact they been having on your life.
You can ask me anything that’s on your heart and I’ll share tips and suggestions to help you.
We will make it fun and relaxing…. and maybe a little cheeky too…
Find the best fitting time, we only need about 30 minutes
Let me know if this sounds familiar:
- Loving each other, but not in-love anymore
- French kiss make out session is replaced with a “duty lip-puck”
- You both are too busy with work, kids and chores - and missing out on having grown up kind of fun
- Other men notice you, but not your own
- You feeling less than about yourself as a woman
- You are exhausted from reading articles and books, hungry for his attention
The struggle is real.
Wouldn’t it be nice if your sex life would get
better and better... like wine?
For example:
On the ordinary Tuesday, your husband sends you flowers and a message:
"Don’t worry about the dinner tonight. I got a surprise for you. Just wear that red dress and a driver will pick you up at 6pm”
Oh la la… you feel all special and powerful.
You sexy up enthusiastically and brag to the driver about your dynamic life.
He takes you to a romantic location where your husband greets you with utmost mystery and takes you to the first dark corner to passionately kiss you, telling you how attractive you are, devouring you with his eyes.
And that’s before you even sit for a dinner.
But… that doesn’t happen…
Instead you have same old life. And nothing in the bedroom.
Nothing! …only crickets…
They bring emotions of fear, anxiety, and a whole lot of “settling” memories.
You second-guessing yourself and you wish you can just start all over again with a better man.
Welcome to the Modern Marriage?
Here is a painful fact: Having crickets in the bedroom is THE loneliest feeling in the world.
Today’s relationships often taste like misery… BUT – they also provide the most delicious opportunity for growth.
I want to share with you a secret….
I have a playful and stable marriage. He supports my highest values (Love, Freedom and Fun) and he is an angel-investor in my business. We laugh a lot and clean up our mess very quickly.
…BUT… sometimes I get scared… sometimes I wonder if he’d prefer a newer model… sometimes I doubt..
Every happily married woman sometimes does.
So if you’re lonely right now, if you’re going through ups and downs, you’re not alone. You’re normal.
The pain means one for these two things:
- Change is needed
- Change is in progress
And guess what?
As you express more courage, gain more experience, change your posture, share authentically… it gets easier.
Maybe you already have some ideas on how to reconnect and what to try
- A book to read
- A professional to hire?
- A program to take?
All those things could work.
There is a course out there on any topic imaginable!
Some coaches will tell you that you can have a magical relationship and be irresistible to any man. Well… it doesn’t work like that.
It’s not only wishful thinking. There are actual skills to master and specific tools to use. If I can share one most powerful Love spell💌 it’s this: Small consistent actions of Love add up over time. Compound Love interest, baby!
Transformation starts from within, because Love is an inside job! Maybe you’re trying to figure out what’s wrong with you (or him) that got you to this “cricket situation”
You might be wishing for one sex a week, but are stuck in no intimacy whatsoever. Each time you get rejected, it feels REAL. It’s frustrating and it brings up all kinds of fears:
- What if I’m not good enough?
- I’ll have to settle for a silent mediocre life
- There is nothing I can do about it And that’s how women discover my work.
Because being married, but feeling alone, unseen and disconnected hurts. It sucks! And naturally then want to have a joyful marriage, without stress or resentment.
So, what will help you through it? Not sexier lingerie, not a candle-lit dinner, nor a long conversation about what’s wrong in your relationship.
Definitely not that!
The Answer
You need to work on your relationship less. And play more!
Here are some of the most common intimacy obstacles.
- “I don’t know anyone who has a happy or fulfilling relationship”
- “It’s normal for a honeymoon to end”
- “Lasting love is just a fantasy”
- “Relationships are hard”
- “People stop having sex after a while. They stop loving each other too”
- “My work is more satisfying than my relationship”
- “To be honest, we stay together just because of kids”
That is Not Your Fault, But YOU Can Turn It Around
You learned about Love growing up – watching your parents, relatives, neighbors. You yourself experienced a heartbreak (or two) as well as exhilarating high from falling in love, especially if it was mutual.
In my practice, working with women and couples, ups and downs are an inevitable part of being in a relationship. Not even childhood sweethearts, relationship experts or “power couples” are immune to the occasional conflict or a few Crickets in the Bedroom.
The good news is that intimacy challenges don’t need to weaken you… you just need to learn what to do and get some support with reconnecting.
The Proof
Staying open and receptive to my husband has him stepping up every day. Even after 7 years together we continue to grow! We continue to have better and better sex! He continues to show me in small and big ways that he wants to be my man and my rock!
I know for a fact without Helena, I wouldn’t now be in a wonderful caring loving marriage with a man who loves and respects me completely.
Just this evening, coming home from my tango lesson: a whole romantic meal ready, he made me dance with him in a very sensual and loving way, he opened about his career choices, asking my opinion on things.
This is life changing, for someone who loves romantic love like me! Thank you, my dear Helena.
MEET YOUR LOVE MENTOR
Helena Summer
What Gives Me The Right To Teach You About Love, Connection and Crickets in the Bedroom?
- I’m an international Love & Relationship Coach
- Worked with exceptional clients on EVERY continent (yes, even Africa and Middle East)
- At age 16, I ran away from a war refugee camp to become a nun ( with a celibacy vow of course)
- Had 2 arranged marriages and 2 friendly divorces
- Devoted a long time into researching how not to have Crickets in my own Bedroom anymore
- Studied with word class mentors, teachers and philosophers
- Interviewed over a hundred happily married couples
- Fascinated with human psychology and social experiments (using myself as a guinea pig)
- Went on dates with more than 500+ men, just to learn who men are
I help you normalize Love, connection and playfulness in your own relationship. Obviously, I’m really good at what I do, because I’ve helped thousands of women uplift their relationship with themselves and their man.–
I’m here to create a more peaceful and playful world, by making every couple I meet feel seen, desired and connected.
Relationships are not the only thing in the world, but they certainly affect every aspect of every thing in the world. Go figure!
Here’s how (no more) Crickets in the Bedroom are delivered Promise
Each module leads you through the exact step by step insights you can use to
increase connection in your relationship
This training includes everything – From clearing traumatic love related memories, stopping self-sabotage to helping you decode your partner’s responses, it’s packed with simple, practical and fun ideas, activities to shake up your sheets.
Comprehensive Online Training
Six highly-practical and motivating modules with videos to walk you through the PRECISE strategies you need to put in place to let these crickets go. Access 24-7 so you can learn at your own pace and revisit the lessons as your relationship progresses.
Practical exercises & worksheets
Simple guidance, PDFs, checklists and physical gift box so you can implement what you are learning. Our calls are recorded, so you can get your questions answered.
Members-Only Guest Expert Training
Learn from my own mentors and colleagues. Get familiar with different approaches to understand how Love and connection works.
Weekly live Q&A calls with Helena Summer
Meet live, 2x a week, to ask your questions, expand your mind and receive private coaching on your specific situation
Access to a Community, including myself
To share ideas, play together and see that you are not alone in this journey.
Special gift in the mail
To connect with your man in a fun, unburdening way. Daily connecting game for 41 days.
